Quarterly and Yearly Goals for Writers


Know Where You’re Going and When You’ll Get There!

 Business of Writing

Successful writers, those who can earn money with their published works, have very specific goals with realistic deadlines. This is true for all small business owners and that is exactly what professional writers are. It is vital for their brand that product flows on a regular basis, even if that regular basis is only two novels a year.

Not only do goal schedules keep writers organized on a specific track but writers work faster when deadlines loom on the foreseeable horizon. When a first draft is due at month’s end a writer can crank out a lot of clean words (clean by first draft standards) in a short period of time, and then begin the final edit of another project

The best goal schedule system of course depends on the individual writer. For some daily, weekly, and monthly goals keep them on task. For others this feels too constrictive and stressful so they may rely exclusively on quarterly goals. It is important to experiment, and know that it is possible for the best goal system to vary depending on the specific project at hand. The goal is to stay focused and motivated, not stressed out worrying about how a bad week or month looks on a calendar.

For people with Asperger’s, due to ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder), and special interests that can shift as swiftly and complete as the dunes of the Sahara, a combination of goals will often be needed to sustain proper focus. A comprehensive daily or weekly checklist of goals will help keep Aspie writers organized on their writing track regardless of what life distractions pop up.

ADHD Aside: I often have multiple simultaneous projects going. Without daily goals I would focus on one writing task so completely that I’d forget the others even exist. That is why I started my daily goals to begin with. For instance, I’m editing one novel, preparing the outline for the edited book’s sequel for NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month), as well as writing a short story set in the same universe. Then there is this blog whose articles will one day grow up to be a real book in its own right. I would often get lost without my daily goals written out in a weekly calendar in my Midori (this is an informative link about what a Midori is not a product endorsement as my wife makes mine from scratch). Without my quarterly goals I would lose focus of what my daily goals are building toward.

The writer’s worst enemy is doubt and discouraged motivation which are easy traps to slip into after a schedule murdering emergency. Realistic goals also help fight this situation. Momentum is easy to lose after an illness or a holiday interruption but looking over completed goals stretched out over weeks, months, and even years reminds writers how much they have already accomplished and that not to return to an interrupted projects would be to waste a massive amount of spent energy and invested life.


The 5 Options

There are five options for goal deadlines; daily, weekly, monthly, quarterly, and yearly. Each has strengths and weaknesses depending on the project and writer. What works for one may drive another into a crippling case of writer’s block. Always remember, this is a tool to help. There should be no sense of failure when one goal schedule method does not work so long as another is tried.

For people who treat big projects like eating an elephant, one small bite at a time, it may be easier for them to start with small obtainable daily goals and from there form weekly or quarterly goals. For big picture people, starting at the end of a project with yearly goals and then working backwards by breaking it into smaller chunks may be the best approach.

Large goals also help with coordination of projects. Starting with yearly goals and then breaking them down into quarterly goals can help combine active projects to maximize creativity and release dates. For example, let’s say an author wants to write a WWII superhero short story to publish in January while revising a fantasy novel set in a different universe set to come out around the same time. Writing the project deadlines out on a yearly goal calendar makes it easy to see six months out that a short story set in the same fantasy universe as the novel would be a better tool for directing readers toward the novel. Or for writers who need variety this would be a good tool to prevent burnout by intentionally staggering books set in different literary universes.


Public Humiliation as Motivator

No one wants others to know they failed and this is triply true for business owners when clients are involved. That is why it is vital for professional writers to make their goals public to their primary clients, the readers. It is too easy to ignore a deadline list if only one person has seen it. But if everyone knows about the goals, if it is presented as a written promise to readers and peers, then the writer will treat their writing more as a workplace obligation than a hobby to be pulled out on rainy Saturdays for recreation.

Once those goals are out there they becomes carved in digital ones-and-zeroes for the world to judge. Public goals can be altered but not without reader irritation so it is vital to keep the goals obtainable and realistic. Fans are generally forgiving of delays and alterations outside the writer’s control. They would rather wait a few month for a better story than a poorly edited one on time, so long as delays are few and far between. But a writer who promises to publish five novels in a year, and secretly does not even have a first draft completed on any of them, will look like a fool at year’s end and alienate loyal readers.

ADHD Aside: People say shoot for the stars and you may hit the moon, but think about how many satellites and Mars probes have became billions of dollars of space litter due to ability overreach. I’d rather plan for the moon and maybe take an extra couple of months to get there than aim for Alpha Centauri and end up splattered across the Sea of Tranquility, thank you very much.

Also, fans will be able to follow the progression of the next book in the series they love as well as other upcoming works like short stories featuring their favorite characters or set in the same universe. Readers will be more likely to emotionally invest in a series if they are certain new volumes are forthcoming.


After Note

This article is about personal deadlines during the writing process, not the publication process. There is a difference between a public goal in July stating “I plan on this novel’s final edit to be in January” and a publication promise of “I will have this novel on Amazon in January.” A goal is an important guideline for finishing a product, but release dates are sacrosanct. Think of release dates as wedding dates. You can change it but odds are not very many people will show up when it’s time to celebrate and those who do probably won’t be bringing gifts.

New writers have a sense of hesitance in openly discuss the projects they are currently working on. It feels like walking naked in front of strangers in a bad way. However this exposure of self helps tear down mental walls in writers. A person who will be honest of the stories they are crafting, how long they expect it to take, and then of life events that made meeting the goals public will write more honestly with their fiction. It conditions the writer to be honest about emotion and detail, and that is always a great thing.

I intended to publish my written goals on November 1st. While that is when my writing year starts and my goals are written out for me to see I unfortunately will not have time to publish them until after NaNoWriMo.



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© 2016 Glenn Hawkins. All Rights Reserved.

Using Myers-Briggs Personality Test to Make Better Characters


An Aspie Cheat Sheet Substitution for Cognitive Empathy

The Tragic Death and Half Life of Bob Bobberson

It is 2:07 a.m. The author has been writing for hours. Her eyes are blurry, her mind a fuzzy mess, but this is the last beat needed to make that sacrosanct nightly word quota and she has not missed it yet. Then catastrophe hits. She knows her A list main characters better than her own siblings but according to the outline a recurring C lister, Bob Bobberson, is finally up for his big moment. And she cannot remember who he is. A quick glance over Bob’s character sheet reveals he is a bald white guy in his mid thirties, but so what? That is what he is, not who he is.

She knows Bob will enter the scene via car wreck and that he will give his life to provide the clue necessary for the protagonist to bring the antagonist to justice, but that is not enough to keep a crisp manuscript rolling along. Bob has appeared a half dozen times so he would be recognizable to the reader at his climax but he never had the scenes to stand out as a person to the author. Now it is 2:39 a.m. and the author has wasted a half hour trying to figure out who this person is so she can kill him rightly.

Will Bob deal with the wreck from a position of rational detachment or emotional instability? Will he rush to the other driver’s assistance or hope for a karmically just broken neck? The specifics of his actions will add flavor to the clues left behind for the protagonist and the antagonist’s confession later. Writing mistakes about the nature of Bob’s personality at this point will result in massive rewrites later if she wants him to be a consistent living character, and of course she does. Worse yet, people will not cringe or cry if a half-formed Bob Bobberson dies. But it is closing on 3:00 a.m. and the day job fast approaches. She hopes for the best and a forgettable Bob Bobberson dies ugly in more ways than one.

Or it could have gone this way.

It is 2:07 a.m. The author notices on her outline that Bob Bobberson’s big moment is coming up so she keys up his character sheet and looks for the MBTI Personality Code: ENFP Extravert(91%) iNtuitive(22%) Feeling(44%) Perceiving(9%). A quick glance over the traits of ENFP people in her handbook tells her that Bob is an optimistic and people oriented guy who needs to be the life of the party. He will do all he can to help the injured antagonist until help arrives, and he will not notice the danger of his situation until he sees the tire iron swinging toward his face.

With the nightly word count deadline met the author goes to bed at a reasonable 2:37 a.m. thanks to having a solid grasp of the personality of a character she barely remembers creating.

ADHD Aside: If 2:37 a.m. isn’t a reasonable time for bed in preparation of the 8:00 a.m. day job then please let me know how you avoid this as a writer. Also, that unnamed author is as fictional as Bob Bobberson in case you were wondering.

Mindblindness and Aspie Writers

Using the MBTI personality code is a must for Aspie writers who want to bypass the mindblindness problem. Mindblindness is the inability for people with Asperger’s to accurately predict how another person will react to a given emotion and what emotion they will feel after a particular stimulus.

With this tool any writer, including those with Asperger’s, will know how their character will respond to a mugging, a come-on line, or winning the lottery. That makes this tool vital for the Aspie writer, and average writers too. Every story has its secondary and tertiary characters and they need consistent reactions more so than main characters due to how little exposure they get. An inconsistent half-formed support character will distract the reader away from the main character and plot every time due to how artificial they appear.

Make this a die hard rule: every character who is in more than two scenes gets an MBTI code. This step may be difficult for some as it requires the author to become that never-named waiter who always seems to attend the protagonist at the local dive. This rule has two benefits. If the character ever pops up outside of the restaurant, minor characters often wander around stories no matter where the outline tells them to wait, then the author will know how this nameless fictional server will react in this setting and moment better than their real life neighbor would.

Pick one of your characters now. Then take the MBTI test here. Once you have finished review the personality score given paying close attention to the percentages.

Is this who you intended your character to be or is the score off somehow? If the score did not come out as expected and the results are not workable that is okay and will be addressed in the next section. If this MBTI code works for you then copy the results including the percentages and save it on your character sheet under the heading MBTI. It should look like this one for Bob Bobberson, with different results of course.


Extravert(91%) iNtuitive(22%) Feeling(44%) Perceiving(9%)

Before starting the daily writing session review the character’s MBTI code. This will ensure the unnamed server or rarely used Bob Bobberson will have a consistent personality despite how mundane or thrilling the the scene may be.


Cheating the MBTI Test

I strongly suggest taking the test while role playing the character. It requires authors to ask “what if” questions for minor characters that they never would have otherwise considered. Not only does this add new depth to minor characters but it can inspire a much larger role for them in sequels or spin-off short stories. That being said, you can always skip the test and go straight to the answer key.

Instead of taking the test for the character an author may instead go through the 16 personalities and build the person in the reverse of my preferred method. There are thousands of breakdowns of the MBTI personalities on the Internet. Some give a generic explanation of the traits of each personality (see above image) while others use well known pop culture icons like the Avengers or Game of Thrones characters as more concrete examples. Search for the info graphic that best suits your style and the story at hand.

Drawbacks for this shortcut include not having a representative percentage score for each personality trait. Bob Bobberson has an extrovert score of 91%. Before taking the test the author never would have thought of him as being that outgoing. Had she started with the answer key she would have given him at most a 65%. If she skipped the percentage all together his outgoingness would never have been consistent.

For a minor character this cheaters form of forced brainwashing can work but for a main character shoehorned personalities will conflict with the character’s natural emotions and the reader will notice.

For your readers’ sake, please do not cheat on the test.

After Note

The MBTI can perform another important task. Are things going to smooth in the scene? Need to add conflict? Look over the character’s MBTI code. Does Bob need to be the center of attention? Not at this party. Is he compassionate? Let the readers know his good natured kindness is putting his life at risk. Does he always find a reason to smile no matter how dark things get in earlier scenes? Punctuate his death by stripping away that eternal cheerful optimism the moment before he dies alone in the snow. Or punctuate it by making his last thought a happy one of hope, maybe for his family or maybe that the antagonist will get whats coming to him because of the clue Bob leaves behind with his dying act. The MBTI spells out each character’s emotional equivalent to Superman’s Kryptonite and Popeye’s Spinach. Instant tension and relief at the flip of a page. Have fun with it.



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© 2016 Glenn Hawkins. All Rights Reserved.


I’ve Added a Glossary Page

My articles have two purposes, to help those like myself with Asperger’s to become better writers and to help people to better understand me as an Aspie writer. I’m hoping this glossary, especially my interpretation of many of the words, will do both. I’ve included a link for each term to provide a more formal interpretation.


This is a list of words and phrases that will help those unfamiliar with the jargon associated with Asperger’s. It is presented in the order of a lesson on Asperger’s so it needs to be read in order the first time.

Neurotypicals (NT) a.k.a. Average People: People who do not meet the requirements for conditions listed as developmental disorders in the current edition of the DSM. Neurotypical does not necessarily mean mentally healthy. http://www.merriam-webster.com/medical/neurotypical

Asperger’s Syndrome: A complex condition often characterized with extreme rationality, high intelligence, powerful creativity, radical truthfulness, uncompromising moral code, and an inability to understand the lack of these traits in average people. http://www.ninds.nih.gov/disorders/asperger/asperger.htm

Aspie: A term used by some with Asperger’s to describe themselves. Due to the occasional use of “Aspie” as a slur against people with Autism it is highly recommended that those without Asperger’s not use the word “Aspie” especially in a workplace setting. https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/aspie

Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD): A complex condition encompassing a diverse range of people who express themselves, experience emotions, display emotions, and learn differently than average people. Asperger’s falls under the ASD umbrella. http://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/autism/facts.html

Flockers: Those who go along with the majority even when they believe the majority is wrong and who condemn those who do otherwise.

Anti-Flockers: Those who do what they believe is right with little or no regard to popular opinion. Includes whistle blowers, writers, agitators, and most Aspies.

Special Interest: A topic of passionate focus often boarding with, and sometimes crossing the line into, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). http://autism.wikia.com/wiki/Special_Interests

Asperger’s Quotient (AQ) Test: A multiple choice exam used to determine the likelihood a person may have Asperger’s. An exam by a psychiatrist is also necessary for a formal diagnosis. http://aspergerstest.net/aq-test/

Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM): The mental health handbook. It lists all mental health disorders recognized in the United States of America as well as the methods of diagnosing them. https://www.psychiatry.org/psychiatrists/practice/dsm

High Functioning: A person with a psychiatric condition who is able to hide it from the majority of average people well enough that it rarely disturbs them. Used to describe some with Autism, Alcoholism, as well as other conditions. Also, often meant to be a compliment by average people on par with “you are a credit to your race,” or “but you look normal enough to pass as a heterosexual.” https://www.verywell.com/what-is-high-functioning-autism-3896828

Feats: Special abilities people have due to training or innate ability (a Dungeons & Dragons metaphor). http://www.d20pfsrd.com/feats

Drawbacks: A disability or hindrance that is the side effect of a feat (a Dungeons & Dragons metaphor). http://www.d20pfsrd.com/traits/drawbacks

Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD): An inability to consistently maintain focus on a boring topic or person. Those suffering from this disorder often find themselves daydreaming about unique and original stories even when they do not wish to. https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/adhd

Apraxia of Speech: A common condition with Autism suffer from that includes, but is not limited to, the inability to verbally communicate when experiencing strong emotions. https://www.nidcd.nih.gov/health/apraxia-speech

Coping Skills: Techniques for stress reduction and emotional management. https://www.semel.ucla.edu/dual-diagnosis-program/News_and_Resources/How_Do_You_Cope

Mind Blindness: The inability to naturally read body language and facial expressions. This leads to difficulty in those with Asperger’s ascertaining if average people actually mean the literal words they say, if they are using sarcasm, or if they are telling lies to lessen emotional impact in an attempt to be polite. This is the reason people with Autism have a constant problem talking to average people. http://www.kmarshack.com/_blog/Kathy_Marshack_News/post/Mind_Blindness_and_the_Disconnect_in_Asperger_Syndrome_Relationships/

The Three Emotional Empathies and Asperger’s: For years educational and other professionals have falsely taught those with Asperger’s lack the ability to feel and express empathy. People with Asperger’s very often express emotions differently than average people and this leads average people to believe that since they cannot see the emotional reactions that they expect then those with Asperger’s must not feel emotions, like the Vulcans on Star Trek.

Actually those with Asperger’s often experience emotions at heightened levels in comparison to average people, especially in regard to the emotional pain and joy of those around them (see Emotional Empathy below). The false narrative that those with Autism do not have empathy is rooted in the fact that most people with Autism lack the innate ability for Cognitive Empathy however when this concept is taught the word “cognitive” is often omitted which alters the entire meaning.

Emotional Empathy: The ability to feel emotional pain due to another’s emotional pain. People with Asperger’s often have a heightened sense of Emotional Empathy, sometimes feeling physical pain themselves due to another’s emotional pain, similar to how average people sometimes feel sympathy pains if they are emotionally close to a pregnant woman.

Compassionate Empathy: The ability to actively attempt to relieve another’s emotional pain solely for the sake of making a person in emotional pain feel better.

Cognitive Empathy: The ability to intuitively interpret and predict the emotions of others by observing body language and facial expressions. People with Asperger’s frequently cannot interpret or predict emotions of those they do not know very well based on non-verbal clues.




© 2016 Glenn Hawkins. All Rights Reserved.

How to Write an Asperger’s Character Right


Lessons Learned from an Aspie Penguin Hero

I’m doing something controversial

Blue car syndrome is when a person buys a new blue car and then notices just how many blue cars are zooming around. Those cars were always there but now there is a point of commonality. It’s as if all those cornflower, royal, and cobalt automobiles now glow with the words “one of us.” Instead of buying a car my new point of commonality is my Asperger’s diagnosis. It’s like finding out I always had a blue car but for some reason never bothered to look at the outside paint job. But enough with this metaphor for now.

While researching everything Asperger’s I fell down the Internet rabbit hole of the lists of people known and suspected of having Asperger’s. In the midst of this special interest plunge I learned this type of speculation is taboo in almost all circles. It is the equivalent of being in the 1950s and publicly asking if a person is gay. I found that surprising but it did make a kind of sense. Average people often mistakenly believe that if something is labeled a mental health problem then it is automatically a bad thing.

This is how I look at it. Asperger’s, as with all mental “disabilities,” are diagnosed by continued behavior over a specified period of time. With real people this is a difficult guessing game because only so much is publicly known, and most of it is third party gossip. Fictional characters however are easier to study.

ADHD aside: Having worked as a teacher in a lockdown children’s psychiatric hospital I can’t pretend everything listed as a mental health disease is a disability. Not too long ago a sexually adventurous woman and a gay man were considered psychotic as the killer in the Tell Tell Heart (click here to read the short story or listen to it expertly performed in 15 minutes by Sir Christopher Lee here). And then all of a sudden those consensual adult sex acts weren’t psychiatric diseases anymore. Anxiety, ADHD, OCD and the like can be disabling. But they can also be super-powered fuel for great achievements.

Aspie, Penguin, Hero

I’m using Kowalski from the Madagascar film and TV cartoon series as my character case study. There will be spoilers ahead for Penguins of Madagascar but only a few of small ones.

The film starts with average penguins flocking in single file to an unknown destination. The flockers happily admit they don’t know or care where they are going. Fortunately the story focuses on the anti-flockers, which include a young Kowalski.

Now how can we tell if a penguin is an Aspie? By careful observation of course. Instead of the rest of his species, Kowalski doesn’t frolic or do the pointless but cute activities that I equate to human small talk. In a culture where the average penguin follows the flock without question Kowalski metaphorically and literally stands outside the norm with his friends at their introduction.

Kowalski’s relationship with his best friend Skipper is not one of relaxed camaraderie but a structured unit with a full military rank system. He is very comfortable with this clear definition of role expectations. When Skipper rejects society by rejecting nature and then dives headfirst into danger to save a tumbling egg, Kowalski abandons the safety of the large flock to help his friend. His sense of loyalty and honor to Skipper literally leads him to jump off a cliff.

Skipper is also by no means an average penguin. He does what he thinks is right even when it means rejecting all of polite flocker society. Kowalski’s other friend, Rico, has apraxia of speech and a case of pica so severe it’s his superpower. The dynamic of the trio is highly common for those with Asperger’s as we often group together with other atypical individuals as we have as hard a time relating to average people as they do us.

As with real life Aspies, even among friends Kowalski doesn’t understand what others think or what words might upset them. When Skipper calls a pod of leopard seals “natures snakes” Kowalski asks, “Aren’t snakes natures snakes?” This correction causes Skipper to yell at him in anger.

Not long after that the egg hatches as the three friends drift out to sea on top an iceberg. The hatchling asks, “Are you my family?” The three friends share a knowing look, smile, and nod to each other. Having silently agreed on what to tell the baby Kowalski beats Skipper to the punch.

You don’t have a family and we’re all going to die. Sorry.”

Skipper elbows him.

What?” Kowalski asks. “I thought that was what we were all nodding about.”

Skipper elbows him again. Harder.

Through the exchange Kowalski’s facial expressions show he is confused with Skipper and Rico’s anger. He has no idea why telling the truth, no matter how bad it is, could be a bad thing. But many years later an adult Kowalski makes an observation that leads Skipper to say, “Remember our talk about true but unhelpful comments?”

ADHD Aside: My wife and I shared a look during this scene. I have said very similar things countless times earning elbows to the gut, smacks to the back of the head, verbal warnings at work, and most recently a stomped foot from my wife while at a wedding. A woman told us how she was nervous because her eight-year-old’s grandfather lets him use power tools when he visits. Apparently “well, they do remarkable things now with prosthetics” is one of those true but unhelpful comments I should have kept to myself.

Kowalski is also the team’s idea man. While unable to read, all the birds are illiterate, he has an amazing head for engineering, mathematics, and forming complex plans at an astonishing speed. This, combined with his mind-blindness and choice of atypical friends leads me to conclude that this character is an Aspie.

What makes Kowalski a beautifully written Aspie character is how his eccentricities are his strengths and not the butt of jokes. His loyalty and sense of honor to his friends surpasses his fear of death which makes him a hero. He is unapologetically honest. While done for comedic effect the laughs are not directed toward Kowalski but at the situation he sums up with direct honesty. Best of all, methods of coping with average people are handed gift-wrapped to those in the audience with Asperger’s. For the rest of my life, when in doubt, I will ask myself or my wife “is this one of those true but unhelpful comments?” before proceeding. 

When done right, characters and stories have deeper levels of meaning for each individual in the audience. Unless the viewer is close to someone with Asperger’s they will not see this particular Sapphire Lexus of an Aspie character as anything other than a quirky bird. But for those of us who have our own sporty blue coupe in the driveway we can’t miss how Kowalski and Skipper role model vital friendship lessons showing how semi-average freethinkers can be good friends with Aspies, and how we can be better friends to them. 


After Note

It is never stated that Kowalski is an Aspie in the show’s continuity or that the character was intentionally written as one. At least not that I could find, so this is purely speculation on my part. It may be coincidence that he shares a name with Timothy Kowalski, M.A.,C.C.C.-SLP, a respected expert in Autism research and that the penguin’s nemesis King Julian, played by actor Sacha Baron Cohen in the films, is cousin and close friend of professor Simon Baron-Cohen who is a well known if somewhat controversial Asperger’s expert. It could be a coincidence, except I don’t believe in those things.


Photo Credit: Dreamworks, Madagascar

© 2016 Glenn Hawkins. All Rights Reserved.

The Official Double-Size Collectors Edition Blog Entry No. 1 for The Aspie Author Viking


What’s an Author to do With a Late Life Asperger’s Diagnosis?

How My Asperger’s test went down

The intimidating stack of check-in paperwork stood higher than the average paperback novel. Well, that might be the writer in me inserting hyperbole. Maybe the admit paperwork and two multiple choice tests just felt that way at the time. That, or my current book is much shorter than it should be. Either way it was a heavy walk to the waiting area and not just because of the tree’s worth of paper on the chipped presswood clipboard.

Finishing the Autism Spectrum Quotient (AQ) test was easy. it is online here, so I had taken it several times the weeks leading up to the official pencil on paper exam. From what I have read this is common for middle-aged adults such as myself who become compelled to find the definitive answer “what’s wrong with me.” Jumping ahead a bit, my official AQ result is 39 which matched my innumerable at-home scores that ranged between 38-41. A score of 26-31 is borderline Asperger’s. So it turns out there is nothing wrong with me but there is a profound difference between me and average people.

As a former teacher I had expected a different quiz with similar questions worded in different ways, but no. The test from the psychiatrist was the exact same one from the website. Go ahead and see for yourself. You know you’re curious. If you didn’t take it yet take it now.

The second questionnaire turned out to be an Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder test (ADHD). I did not expect this one but it turns out ADHD and Autism often go hand in hand. As a child I had this diagnosis and that was a decade before it became a participation ribbon for all boys with any type of troublesome emotional issues. Age must have cured my ADHD. According to my documentation I definitely do not have it now. The ADHD diagnosis requires a 68 and my score was only 64. Close, but no Adderall.


Why is this guy writing about Autism if he’s got the Asperger’s?

That is such a good question I am going to pretend you asked it. I did not know until some compulsive research that in America Asperger’s is no longer an official diagnosis in and of itself. Asperger’s was bundled into Autism and removed from the DSM in 2013 (Slate magazine covers some of the details here). The DSM is the comprehensive list of psychiatric illness as decided by learned committee. If it isn’t in the DSM it isn’t a mental illness, and if it is in the book then it is a mental illness. Nothing like behavior based mental health rulings based on the social norms of a committee, but that’s a topic for another blog entry. (I do not care what the paperwork says, that’s too big of an aside on DSM for a person without attention deficits.)

This removal of Asperger’s from the DSM became a bit of a controversy but only for those who took the change too seriously. It could’ve been a much larger controversy but many in the psychiatric community ignored the DSM change in the ways that mattered. If the same testing would’ve placed a person in the Asperger’s box before 2013 then they were often still told they had Asperger’s.

The joke is that Asperger’s fully merging with autism is only a problem if the labels are taken overly serious. As with all labels, renaming Romeo to Rose doesn’t change his extreme emotional swings and suicidal tendencies. That is why I suggest following the profound philosophical motto of the great mad scientist Rick: Just do not think about it (NSFW, this should not be played around kids, or at work, or around most average people). So long as we understand changing a word does not actually change the concept a word represents we should be fine.

By the way, the new ICD-10 list of medical conditions that came out in 2015 included Asperger’s as a diagnosis even though the DSM has removed it as a diagnosis. Imagine if everyone refused to accept that Pluto is no longer a planet to such an extent that even NASA kept treating the glorified ice-ball as a peer to Jupiter. That is basically what happened with the Asperger’s diagnosis. (I am going to need to figure out how to create ADHD Moments in future blogs. If you have advice on this please share it in the comments below.)


The Shrink Sit-Down

After handing in the paperwork there was the session with the psychiatrist. In a little over two hours we did the “what’s the first thing you think of when I say this word” test, reviewed my first failed marriage, and examined why I was in my early 30s before making my first friends. At the end of the talk he said he needed to review my AQ multiple choice test but otherwise I was at least in the Asperger’s range.

Relief flooded me. Epiphany lifted a weight from my mind and tossed it into the moon’s orbit. Having Asperger’s meant there was nothing wrong with me. Different yes, but not wrong.

For every bonus feat of the mind, to make a Dungeons & Dragons metaphor, there is a drawback. I can hold complete worlds in my mind populated with diverse individuals, but I am unable to see the joy others find in watching a man in armor run with a brown ball shaped like an egg. I can analyze real-life crisis situation and spot multiple causes as well as accurately predict the most likely outcomes from choices made, but mundane small-talk with strangers is impossible to tolerate. For decades I have actively tried to wrap my mind around racial prejudice because the concept is so far removed from rationality that I just do not get it, but no matter the demographic of a job or party I am always the outsider who can’t herd properly with the flock. (Actually both halves of that last part are benefits as far as I am concerned since flockers in herds often follow the stupidest of the group off the tallest cliff.)

Being different is not being wrong. It is only being different.


Getting the Final Results

I received my results today (as of this writing of course). There’s something different about hearing the diagnosis and seeing it on paper in official doctor jargon. I passed my Autism test with a solid Asperger’s diagnosis of F84.0.

It only took 39 years and 11 months to find out what makes me so different from average people is Autism-Light. Oddly enough I am ahead of the curve. Most adults do not hunt out an official diagnosis until they hit 40, the old farts. When people talk about autism and Asperger’s they often think in terms of kids due to how awareness is marketed. Those kids grow up. Asperger’s has been around as long as people even though the label is new. Please remember, there are more autistic Aspie adults than kids.


Ending with a Flashback

Asking for the initial referral from my general practitioner was the hardest part of the process. When it was time to bring up new business during my annual checkup I choked. Doubt overcame me. Could I be over-analyzing my issues? Perhaps my true goal was to find an excuse for being unable to connect with others as easily as I thought I should. Did the constant barrage of autism awareness commercials help me form a convenient delusion that I might have something that I do not? And then there were the biographies I had found recently on YouTube about famous Aspie writers. Hans Christian Anderson stories gain a much deeper meaning with the understanding that both he and most his characters were profoundly Aspie.

The Little Mermaid for example lost her voice when she needed it most and as a result met a horrific fate that those of us on the autism spectrum can relate to (read the story here but be warned, this is not the Disney version). Meanwhile back in the doctor’s office, my wife asked for the referral while I sat there silent as a cursed merfolk.

ADHD aside: an Aspie is a person with Asperger’s as well as a description of actions displaying obvious Asperger’s characteristics. it is best if neurotypicals, the official term for what I have always thought of as “the average people,” dont use the word Aspie around someone with Asperger’s if you do not know them well.

Doubts naturally lingered out of the clinic, across the parking lot, and through the rest of the day. That night the four of us took a family outing to a craft store. While my wife was off finding what she needed I attempted to wrangle my toddler and his five year old brother. Then this overly friendly man working at the store tried to strike up a conversation. He seemed vaguely familiar but we stop by the store around once a week so that’s to be expected. Fortunately he wandered away after a few awkward moments of small talk. Awkward chats are a standard for me so I thought no more about it.

Later I saw him across the store talking to my wife. After a long talk with the guy she rejoined the family and reminded me who he was. Turns out I have known the guy for years. He’s even one of my few Facebook friends.

My wife had explained to him how if I bump into people in places where I am not used to seeing them I usually do not recognize them. Same goes if they’re wearing radically different style clothes or recently dyed their hair a new color.

“Oh, he has Asperger’s like my kid,” the guy told her. “I didn’t know that.”

What an amazing happenstance it would seem if I still believed in random coincidences. The doubt that lingered in the doctor’s office died in a hobby shop that night.


About the Blog

I promise the other entries will be half this length or less. Usually less. It will entertain. It will focus on how to be an author with Asperger’s. That means if you’re a writer who wants to learn my methods on research, prewriting, writing, revising, and editing you’ll benefit from reading it. If you want to learn how to better manage living among neurotypicals as an Aspie, you’ll also benefit. If you’re an average person, do not feel bad as it is not something you can help, that knows an Aspie or an eccentric writers then you might find insight into how we think. If you’ve met one person with autism then you’ve met one person with autism, however there are still commonalities and connections that should help average people better relate to the Aspie or writer in their lives. New posts every first and third Wednesday!



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